Does she know that in packs there's an alpha female too? The alphas are the couple, not an alpha male and a beta female. She might like to know that
Those are the words I needed but I couldn't put them in simple terms. They were jumbled in my head. That is exactly the point I have wanted to get across for 8 months now but haven't been able to. Now that I have a simpler way of thinking about it I think it will come across in a non confrontational manner.
Especially since the whole basis she used to form here opinions was derived from "Women who run with the wolves" By Clarrissa Pinkola-Estes. It puts everything in terms of the female alpha but does not mention the existence of the male alpha.
