I don't know it's kinda strange. Sometimes she'll talk about it being a man's world as if she's some man hater and then she'll talk about how so and so is such a man hater and how stupid that is. Baffling and most of what she says when she's defending her position (and I make sure that doesn't happen often) absolutely runs counter to her ideals. Alien stuff I guess.

The one thing that really bugs me is she'll use " so my happiness doesn't matter" line. This is something she learned from her C. She must get out of the marriage and pursue her own happiness.

The strange thing is that I think she is very happy now. I just don't think she's realized it yet. She seems to really enjoy life lately. But seems to think she must pursue happiness. Just a bit bqaffling to me.

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