Quote: I was really paying attention to her mood and I realize that it really swings dramatically from my venting
Quote: there isn't much of a way around it other than me Acknowledging and validating her feelings when this occurs. This I need to work on.
sorry No
you see you can't be responsible for all her feelings and I am glad that you both had a discussion about it
what needs to happen is for her to realise you are venting to her as she is safe you are in business together and she is the most logical person for you to vent about business stuff to other wise you would get into a bad business practice of doing it with another 'customer' and risk it getting back to the first person
what she needs to do is not get sucked into your venting emotion and realise it is your emotion not hers and when you have finished smile and say - feel better
so sorry to disagree but you cannot be watching your emotions and hers in this type of situation she needs to learn that it is not hers and to dare I say it 'detach' from what you are saying
thanks for pointing out to me that I should let go of my 'rescuer' mindset in relation to h
need to keep the focus on me - and what is good for me in the long run
do you realise that you have what many people on here would kill for 'great communication'
you really do deserve a big pat on the back pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat
