Xue I think you are really on the right track here and I think there are hidden messages for you in her messages to the student it will be interesting to see how her talk affects his decision and how interesting that she sees there is a differece between love and like and that you can not like someone for awhile but still love them
now I have to say get your ar$e over to my thread I need your help - I got a call a 40 minute call and then got stressed and now am going out to drink with friends need your insight