differences of opinions are what makes us unique and also interesting
so what you need to do is find a way to put the heat out in these conversations and sometimes it can be as simple as saying I really enjoy these conversations we have I particularly enjoy listening to your opinion and though sometimes I don't agree with what you say or understand how you think - I think the most brilliant thing is that we are different people with different ideas and thoughts and that is one of the things I find really interesting in our conversations it would be terrible if we were not so different that we thought alike about everything however - the only thing I don't like is how we seem to end up making it into some kind of mini-arguement (or whatever word you would use) and it feels like one of us has to be right when infact neither of us has to be right or wrong
what do you think (you ask her)
I think she likes to have a different opinion - but maybe just needs to realise it is not win/lose its just a difference of opinion
and I must say that though I am always right a difference of opinion gets me thinking about the way I think and sometimes(when the moon is blue) I have been known to change how I think
