Typos or not, it was full of wisdom. I printed it out so I can read it regularly and keep me on track.
Quote: I am thinking she is extremely confused and may just be trying to work out how SHE can help change this situation you are both in
We always forget that there is another person involved in this too. Yes BJ, that is a very simple but wise observation.
We had a good time together at her parents house yesterday. Her's dad's 75th. Her sister seemed surprised but happy to see me.
We had another third person semi r talk. And again we had differring viewpoints. I really have a hard time telling if those help or harm. They are instantly a bit heated but we drop them and things are good. Really hard to say but probably a bit risky and I'm sure GAL is a much better choice.
It must be confusion as much as she waffles. And of course that causes confusion in me. Must be why they say don't try to figure it out, just fix it.
