just came here to post GAL big time do for you and only you actions speak louder than words act like you are living for you you are happy with who you are and that is good enough for you follow or be left behind I love you but won't wait for ever I think you are strong and independent but so am I and waiting for the next level is now becoming less important as I forge on with my life the way I want it to be follow or be left behind catch me if you can I am moving forward with or without you
you want to be independent well so do I you want to be strong well so do I and frankly waiting around for my wife to return while playing at being brother and sister is not my perfect life
trying not to make you angry or negative is not my perfect life watching what I say or do is not my perfect life
and not getting angry with people giving people another chance to make it right dealing with negative situations positively rather than with negativity and brawn makes me an independent and strong person I am not like others I refuse to let the problems of others become mine being negative takes too much energy acting the opposite of what people think I should gives me more power and control over a situation
I do not need to respond like others I have more control over my emotions than that I control me - my emotions do not
I can afford to be kind to other people, I can afford to use logic and commonsense in my dealings with angry people, there is always a solution to any problem and working together with people will help us to find the solution
getting angry and negative is the not the way I am who I am and I accept people are who they are
these are the things that have been jumping around in my head the last day or two these are the all the things that identify strong independent people
maybe you could say that her wanting to be a strong independent person got you thinking lately and you have been trying to come up with a concrete definition of what that is
and then go with the flow put up a big piece of paper and brainstorm ideas maybe if you can work towards a single definiton between you things can begin to move
I read something recently (in a psych book) may not get it word for word but here goes
there are two kinds of people in the world those who look at life the see it the things are and live with how life is those who look at life the way things are yet see how it could be think how they can make it that way
don't know if this helps - just typed down everything in my head as it came
