yes this is very much what I've been thinking too. I'm going to have to think on how to do this. I guess it just scares the hell out of me to start an R talk since they have gone so badly in the past. I'm not even sure how to talk about it yet without it turning into a someone has to win thing.
I've also thought about the Gal like crazy approach.
Yes she does seem to be happy in the current sitch. She acts happy all the time. Happier than I've seen her in years and years.
Whenever I think of an R talk I just see myself giving ultimatums and that wouldn't be good.
I am tired today. Didn't sleep much cause I worked myself up and got upset over nothing at all. Haven't done that in awhile.
I'm going to think on this and yes I need to do something different. I've been all over the boards looking for ideas lately. Just not finding it.
