I need to think about this

you really ought to do something to tip over the status quo
can you not have differences of opinion without arguing
it would have been very interesting to find out her thought patterns on this issue

the world is full of couples/family members
individuals living with others yet remaining individuals at the same time

interesting

but more important here is how you can tip the scales on your whole sitch - as opposed to working out how and why she thinks something

bj


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