Hi Chelsea Thanks for stopping by and your kind comments. Yes DBing works. I think there is majic in the detaching part. It seems no matter how hard a spouse tries it is only after detaching that the wayward spouse decides they want to save the relationship. We still have a long way to go but at least we are headed in the right direction. Practicing DBing has been good for me too. I no longer depend on H to make me happy. I can do it myself. I can take care of me and be happy. So no matter what happens I know I will be OK I will follow your thread and keep you in my prayers.
