Hi GG and all. Greetings from sunny California. My H and I are doing well. It took a while for me to realize that things were not going to be perfect right away.
It seems that H just needs some time and that given that time he will become the husband I want him to be. I have learned that patience and pma is still very important. And Jenny you helped remind me that I shouldn't wait on him to do things that make me happy especially if I can do it myself. So I do buy myself flowers and continue to be good to myself. It really helps.
I had a good day today at work and H is real excited about our daughter getting married on Valentines Day.
I hope all of you are doing well also. DBing is a lot of work but not only does it help save our marriages it also makes us feel much stronger and better about ourselves.
