Ronnie did you read the latest post on this forum from JohnK. Over and over it is the detachment from the spouse while you are becoming the person you want to be and doing all those 180's that seems to work in getting our spouses to take another look at the situation.
So again don't keep telling him that it can be fixed or that you want him to try. He knows that and telling him again just pushes him away. Instead keep doing the 180's and detach, detach. Concentrate on your kids and the example you are setting for them. You have already learned alot and come a long way. Keep up the good work.
