the term LB means "lovebuster", it is terminology from the marriagebuilders.com website. The theory is that we are supposed to be depositing love units into our accounts, and when we do contrary things, they constitute lovebusting.
But, I respectfully disagree with the others, who have suggested that your requests for some security were AT ALL unreasonable. You sound like a very smart woman! I am glad to hear, that you followed YOUR own heart and instincts in this matter...and that it was well recieved by your H.
Only you know what is best for you...glad you knew enough to follow your own wise counsel.
