Chris,

I just re-read your post of 1/25 and the section where you talk about each of you being stuck:

"Hers.. Because she did not want to cause me any pain.. She was afraid to move forward as it may give me false hope"

"Mine... Because I basically felt I could show her no feeling because ultimately I did not feel that an expression of my feeling is accepted by her."

Like Sue had asked, what was your therapists advise for getting un-stuck...any? I'd love to hear how one gets out of that circle?

Thanks,

Chelsea