so you too have a circle... you say you are stuck because:
"Mine... Because I basically felt I could show her no feeling because ultimately I did not feel that an expression of my feeling is accepted by her."
you feel an expression of your feeling is not accepted by her... but is that really a reason to stop you? Why? Are you afraid of putting pressure on her? or Are you afraid of rejection and being hurt more? Couldnt you take a chance and start small expressing a little? or do you think that would further push her into being afraid of giving you false hope, there by shutting her off more. maybe some expressing might make her go forward just a little too. maybe making some baby steps together...
Im sure your therapist gave you the apropriate advice as to getting unstuck. these were just questions and thoughts that I felt when reading your post.
