The session started off OK but our therapist noticed that my W was not really there. She seemed off in another world. I talked for a bit and said what for me was some very powerful stuff. The therapist remarked to my W "did you here what he just said".
Eventually she did come back and we talked about how we both felt "stuck" each for our own reasons.
Hers.. Because she did not want to cause me any pain.. She was afraid to move forward as it may give me false hope
Mine... Because I basically felt I could show her no feeling because ultimately I did not feel that an expression of my feeling is accepted by her.
Of course this put us in a position of going round and round in circles.
After the session, later that night, I did see an improvement in my W's attitude. We hugged and kissed and talked for abit and things almost felt normal..
