Sue, I feel like dramatizing my thread just so you can stop be more often.
Rich, It's always good to here from you. You give very good advise and I feel a little guilty that I have been a little luckier than you (for now).
Rondo, Keep it cool, You will get there.
Chelsea, For you its all to new, it will take time for the newness and awkwardness to wear off. It will take time for both of you to feel comfortable enough to start fine tuning your marriage. I know you have the strength to do this and I believe once you start on the right path it you will be able to have your H "fall" back in love. It probably will surprise both of you.
