Congratulations Chris. I am very proud of you too and glad that your W was able to tell you that she is proud of the way you have handled things.
We saw our councelor and had a good session last night. Our councelor has always said she was amazed at how well I was handling things and that most women with an H that wants to leave for OW would not have been able to do the Dbing that I was doing. My H has expressed surprise at my reaction to his EMA because he thought for sure I wouldn't even try to save the marriage but would be a raving outraged vindictive person. So Chris really appreciate that your W was able to verbalise to you that she appreciates all the work and sacrafices you have made.
I know with the help of our SBT therapist we are going to fine and I think you will be too.
I am finding there is still much work ahead of us to have the kind of marriage that I want. H seems to want to put our marriage first in his life and that helps alot.
Keep coming here and keep sharing your progress with me. We still have to keep up the PMA and the Patience. Those two things seem to be the key.
[This message has been edited by Johnswife (edited 01-11-2000).]
