___________________________________________________________ I agree that the card is very important, but I wonder if it is only important to 4's? I can just hear Mojo chiming in with, "He11, I don't care about the card, what I want for my anniversary is a good fcuk!" I mean 4's want that, too, but only if it is accompanied by a great card! NOT. ________________________________________________________
Tee hee. The only better thing would be to get the good fcuk and then get a card the next say describing in salacious detail what a good fcuk it was!
Karen1 He has no fear of making sexual comment or innuendo in front of the boys
I just wanted to give you a different look into a males mind but your H is different than me.
Our son 33 and I don't make very many sexual comments to/with him. He is not married.
Our D is 35 and married. I comment on a few sexual topics, like her H's vasectomy or some thing medical like UTI's.
While plugging something in under the bed for D35, she has a device she forgot was there. Afterwards, she asked me if I saw anything different under the bed. I said no.
A while later I found our what she was talking about. I saw it, but thought it was part of the paraphernalia for her little kids.
I guess that makes me a prude or out of touch.
refocused attention on DD2 swimming
Good for him. Those yung'ens need to be watched like a hawk. Your is a good dad.
He doesn't really care for the overdone, trophy wife
So we do think alike in some areas.
it is this kind of thing that makes me appreciate his loyalty.
I am happy for you Karen1.
RE Lil I can just hear Mojo chiming in with, "He11, I don't care about the card, what I want for my anniversary is a good fcuk!"
My twin soul!
Lil, personally I think cards are _______________________ I guess I don't know. It is a mystery to me. I kind of chalked them off when all of the good ones were in the $4 range. Mow that there are Dollar Stores galore, I am buying and giving cards again.
For a while I made some using the computer. You can customize the card for an individual as you know the person, and can tie in recent events and so many things only you or a close friend would know.
Karen1 He has no fear of making sexual comment or innuendo in front of the boys I just wanted to give you a different look into a males mind but your H is different than me.
Our son 33 and I don't make very many sexual comments to/with him. He is not married.
Our D is 35 and married. I comment on a few sexual topics, like her H's vasectomy or some thing medical like UTI's. __________________________________________________________
H is funny this way. He is more comfortable talking about sex than doing it or intiating it. Strange.
While plugging something in under the bed for D35, she has a device she forgot was there. Afterwards, she asked me if I saw anything different under the bed. I said no.
A while later I found our what she was talking about. I saw it, but thought it was part of the parafunalia for her little kids. ___________________________________________________________
That is a cute story. I don't think most Dads want to realize that their daughter is a sexual being.
_______________________________________________________ I guess that makes me a prude or out of touch. _______________________________________________________
Not at all. Not everyone has to throw their sexuality around like spare change. I'll bet a lot of the HD people on this board are not very "in your face" with it. Many of us are unassuming kind of people who just want to have really good sex with the one we love but we aren't outwardly "sexy" people.
refocused attention on DD2 swimming Good for him. Those yung'ens need to be watched like a hawk. Your is a good dad. __________________________________________________________
He is and she has no fear of the water and of course, can't swim. This weekend he took her to a bike shop to pick up his bike and she climbed on a tiny two wheeler with training wheels and said, "my bike". H said, "Wrap it up!" ___________________________________________________________
He doesn't really care for the overdone, trophy wife So we do think alike in some areas. ___________________________________________________________
Most men want to at least take a gander at that particular species of female. You can't help but notice. __________________________________________________________
it is this kind of thing that makes me appreciate his loyalty. I am happy for you Karen1 ________________________________________________________
Karen1 That is a cute story. I don't think most Dads want to realize that their daughter is a sexual being. Karen1, I want her to be a sexual being with her H. I see her as such but am not comfortable with some topics or jokes.
Sometime she is our D and I am the dad, and sometimes I see her as a hot young thing in her peer group, which is a W with a H and kids, exactly like BB and I were at that age. I want her to have as much fun, excitement, joy, the EC, bonding experiences, feel safe, feel fulfilled, just like I did at that age. In fact if I knew she was not sexual with her H, I would be somewhat sad.
BTW, her H just got a V and I secretly want the both of to have as much sex and LM as they can get in in a week. I am happy for both of them that they have the freedom to do it anytime they want. Every once in a while, I hint to SIL that he the man, and to go for it. No I don't resent my SIL being sexual with D. Like I said I am happy for him and D that they are a sexual pair.
If she was 18 and just dating, I would go into dad mode. Worried about her sexual practices.
Most men want to at least take a gander at that particular species of female. You can't help but notice. I am "Busted" K. I would look now but might have not looked much with the 6 to 20 yr old's around. That is one reason I posted my thoughts, to give you options or another male's POV. Like I said, each one of us is different.
Lou, I'm making lemonade. Good. Sometimes that is what is called for.
Quote: Back to tiling the Kitchen floor. Entryway last week.
Dang, Lou...I just paid someone to tile our entryway and a bathroom/laundry room. It was, literally, thousands of dollars. I should have just had you drive down here and have my W pay you in sex.
Lou that story about the "device" cracked me up and reminded me of my friend's story. Her finished basement had flooded while they were out of town(their bedroom was down there) and she called her sister in a panic because she knew her mom and dad were on their way over to assess the damage and she wanted to make sure all her sex toys were not floating around the room when her parents walked in. LOL Sisters are good that way.
Break from installing the cement board, goes under the tile.
HairDog, I had about 5 different scenes play out in my mind, all were questionable and involved something in-appropriate.
I should have just had you drive down here and have my W pay you in sex. Is that like getting paid in Confederate money, not worth having or a no starter because it won't happen.
she forgot was there. Afterwards, she asked me if I saw anything different under the bed. I said no.
