Karen1 That is a cute story. I don't think most Dads want to realize that their daughter is a sexual being. Karen1, I want her to be a sexual being with her H. I see her as such but am not comfortable with some topics or jokes.
Sometime she is our D and I am the dad, and sometimes I see her as a hot young thing in her peer group, which is a W with a H and kids, exactly like BB and I were at that age. I want her to have as much fun, excitement, joy, the EC, bonding experiences, feel safe, feel fulfilled, just like I did at that age. In fact if I knew she was not sexual with her H, I would be somewhat sad.
BTW, her H just got a V and I secretly want the both of to have as much sex and LM as they can get in in a week. I am happy for both of them that they have the freedom to do it anytime they want. Every once in a while, I hint to SIL that he the man, and to go for it. No I don't resent my SIL being sexual with D. Like I said I am happy for him and D that they are a sexual pair.
If she was 18 and just dating, I would go into dad mode. Worried about her sexual practices.
Most men want to at least take a gander at that particular species of female. You can't help but notice. I am "Busted" K. I would look now but might have not looked much with the 6 to 20 yr old's around. That is one reason I posted my thoughts, to give you options or another male's POV. Like I said, each one of us is different.
Lou, I'm making lemonade. Good. Sometimes that is what is called for.
