but I know that he didn't look out of respect for me.
It could be. It also could be for other reasons like he did not want the kids to see him looking. That would have been me at one time.
I wanted to set a good example and was squeamish about anything sexual with kids present. Not looking because BB might see me looking? I would have looked and just acted surprised. She is a big girl and knows things like this happen.
More reasons but my crystal ball is down today.
How about asking him. If he did not see it happen, say he missed looking as some terrific surgery results.
This post is not meant to be about me, Just wanted you to know how one Male's mind used to work so you have more options. I am also not suggesting your H thinks like I used to think or act.
