My bf does something like this... we can be going along and I feel that some good will and connection is being generated, and I'll reach out to him similar to the way you did, and he'll slam the door on my fingers. Puzzling.
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Quote: H wanted me to take today off but it isn't that restful to chase a toddler all day so I decided to go to work.
Where is your toddler usually when you're at work? Can't you send the tyke off to day care and stay home alone to rest?