Hi John and welcome to this forum. Isn't it amazing but over and over again I hear that when one spouse quits trying to push the reconciliation therefore stops trying to convince the spouse to work on the marriage the wayward spouse suddenly makes an effort to come back. It happened for me too. There really is majic is the detachment. I think we just have to get to that point before our spouses begin to come out of their fog. Congratulations to you. Your hard work is how paying off and you are on the right path. Keep it up and let us know how you are doing.
[This message has been edited by Johnswife (edited 01-17-2000).]
