Yeah - I can certainly see how frequency would get worse during MC - counseling often makes things worse for a while (I'm a counselor) but if you can stand the heat the result can be worth it. Does your Counselor seem solution oriented? If so, maybe it will help to describe what I did - these are your hopes, goals, aspirations and they are no less legitimate than your mates desires.
I have been thinking lately that my R may be reaching a bit of a critical mass stage. I'm not chasing H around with my agenda but I'm not backing off of it either. I am allowing him his 6week "solution" and at the end of that time we will see what has happened. We did ml last night, H did initiate and it was really good but it was no surprise since this is my fertile period. In a day or so when fertilization is no longer a possibility we'll see what happens to the interest.
As for glue sniffing, I has ALOT of wine last night - whatever kills brain cells has a lot of appeal.
