I wish I were the one that chose those particular things to mention. H did. That is essentially H's mantra - x,y,z all come before sex. The inference is that I am being immature and idealistic to suggest that they don't. The sacred tv watching in the evening is H's "downtime" - very sacred and not to be toyed with.
Currently, I am considering just deluging H with sexual signals but doing nothing about them. I think I should just come at him like and HD guy - pat his azz, make sexual innuendo, jump up and kiss him at every opportunity, tell him how great he looks and then at night follow his prescription to just go get some sleep.
