Tonight my W and I went out for dinner and had a great time. We talked, drank, ate and were very happy. She asked me about getting back what we once had and that I am a completely new person. She actually said I was the person she once married. Since we have seperated, I have done everything that I could to bring us back together. About two weeks ago, I stopped doing things to get us back together and concentrated on me and my kids. What a revelation. This DBing thing works like I can't believe. Thanks Michele and all the wonderful people on this site.