Hi Jenny I am glad things are still progressing forward for you and your H. It is amazingly slooow isn't it. At least our H's are home and making some improvement so we are doing something right.
My H is making baby steps too. It was hard but I am learning not to expect too much too soon I wonder though if they will ever be the kind of loving and affectionate H's we want or are we going to have to settle for less than what we would like. You see if you and I can do all this changing I am hoping that our H's will want to please us enough that they will look to see what they can do better too.
Right now I will settle for the little baby steps and concentrate on making myself happy and enjoying my 3 month old grandson. What a treasure he is. I never imagined that being a Grandma could be this much fun or that I could love him sooo much. He truly is the joy in my life right now.
Continue being good to yourself Jenny. It helps us get through this mess.