Does my husband have an alter ego? Your H sounds SO MUCH like mine! Also, did he have a relationship with the same ow as my H? Sounds so similiar!! I hope he'll eventually come around as mine did. Then you'll only have to worry about whether you're married to a weak self-centered jerk when you're in a down mood.... whatever, I don't like the alternatives, and I believe my H is giving the best that he can to the marriage.
Take care of yourself and good luck with the job search. Making a good career move should do lots for your morale! You've certainly earned a good turn of events, and I believe it will soon happen.
