My W and S moved back into our house last week. She had left me a note & moved out 5 weeks ago with our son. She said she was on the edge of a breakdown. We had trust and communication problems for a while and recently she had a miscarriage(second one) and found out she had fibroids. She said she wasn't happy and didn't love me the right way anymore. We had a very friendly Christmas and W moved back home later on in the week from her moms house. We had a discussion Christmas night about our problems and lack of communication since she had moved out. She was distancing herself from me and her home. She had brought up the D word numerous times during her absence. I told her I loved her with all my heart but right now I was the least important person in her life. I gave her my wedding ring and said when you are ready give that back to me. She started to cry and made me put it back on. It seems that this sort of made her come back home sooner than I had anticipated. We went to a NY's eve party together and I nursed her from the flu. She apologized for the mess that had happened and I too apologized. We have been enjoying each others company and I have been staying positive and implementing DB tactics even thought I backslide on occasion. I have been showing her unconditional love and she has a hard time understanding why I keep on doing what I'm doing when she is verbally mean and throws the D word around at me. Since moving back in she has been touchy and feely with me and has even spoke of going to Disney for a vacation. Our son,who is 8 years old, still wants a baby brother and W said how about if we adopt? Another shocker! Than last night she said she thinks she moved in too soon and she wants rules established?? It kind of threw me for a loop but I told I loved her and said as long as we stay positive and communicate we can make it all work out. I know everything takes time and I think I got too excited about her moving back in. I need some advice as to what is next now that she is actually back??!!
