HI! Ooh! Congratulations on the apology. I am hoping for that some day myself... as I have apologized for what I have done to my H. I also sympathize with not feeling loved or secure yet.. I got my first "I love you, too" in 13 weeks. Yes, I initiated it, but I had also continued to tell him that I loved him through this. I know I have a desparate need for continued support and ideas too!! And yet now that I have started to posting here in Piecing my marriage Back together there are less responses. I am still confused and impatient, but I really want this to work. My H is saying he'll be home "long before July" (when his lease runs out), but I am still craving to have my needs being met. AGH!!!! I am so impatient these days!! But do hang on to the baby steps that your H is making!! An apology is a heckuva baby step, too. HANG IN THERE!! GREAT DBing!!!