Hi, CeMar, Glad to see you're still fighting the good fight.
My W still does not initiate sex, but I have nearly stopped initiating as much. Actually, I don't get turned down that often, since I don't ask that often.
When I do ask, she'll say something like, "I don't know how you can find the time for sex when you say you don't have time for ..." Like 30 minutes every two months is a big drain on my time.
Yes, I resent this. I would ask much more often if I didn't have to worry about getting burned. Divorce? Affair? I'd still have to say no, but one should never say never. A few years ago, I thought that if she were to have an affair my world would end. Now I think that I'd be angry and hurt, but I would endure.
I am still mandksdad and still don't sleep with W, but I'm kind of liking it that way. I'm sleeping way better, and I don't blame the kids. When W and I ML it's almost always in the morning after the kids have gone to school. It's not enough, but when it does happen I'm on cloud nine for a week.
