Since your "let's say" is my reality, I'm qualified to answer this one:
Willing to give it up? Not as long as I'm not a quadraplegic or something equally disastrous. But that's neither here nor there, because she actually made that decision *for* me, because, well, it's kind of hard to get laid without her participation. Question now becomes: "How long am I willing to go without?" That answer varies with my level of disgust over the state of my life on any particular day.
Harbor resentment? You bet. The resentment will continue, perhaps deepen, until the things keeping her from me change either by her own conclusion or during the course of MC.
Divorce her? My initial answer to that would be no. But the Reality Answer depends on who falls in love with me first: My wife, or someone else that God (or maybe the devil himself) chooses to bring into my life in time.
Sabu
It's better to need someone because you love them than it is to love someone because you need them.
