He just asked me a while ago if things were good with us. I said well... he said they are right? I said I guess. he said "you guess"???
a friend came over tonight and asked how we were doing and he said we were doing good we just have kid issues. He said arent we doing good? I said well you have been drinking like a fish out of water every night. He said yeah but our issues us arent we doing good? My jaw dropped! What planet is he living on? okay man I guess its not his fault its mine. I havent complained about anything, and have been doing all this active listening and suporting, and comming here to vent so of course he thinks everything is great I guess. He so quickly forgets his blow ups but cant let go of mine if I have them... so since I havent blown up he assumes things are good I guess.