I've been pretty much thinking the same thing as Theresa.
When I wrote my last post I thought. Hmmm I think I've said this before at some time. Probably a couple months ago right?
As long as your H keeps with the drinking. You're just going to keep spinning your wheels. The cycle.
If you have to monitor someone's behavior 24 hours a day that seems to be more of a warden type relationship than a W.
I'm one of those passive resisters like Wesse described so I see where she's coming from. But the drinking may escalate a conflict that may have lasted an hour into 6-12 hours.
