but I am feeling really mad at this moment!!! My H just called me up yelling at me and carrying on... I havent been answering the phone and he has been trying to get a hold of me all morning. But does he bother to leave a message? NO! He hasnt worked overtime for a long time. well we cant manage with out it. so for the last two months I have not been able to pay the over $1200/mo MINIMUM payments on our credit cards!!! the ones he charged up drinking and buying whatever he wanted and I had to purchase groceries with them while he was blowing tons of money and not working ot!! grrrr. so now the creditors have been calling all day and I am just not picking up the phone and he knows this!!! grrrr! I am so mad at him. okay settling down, he is just an idiot and thats that