You certainly know you have my support and understanding and I do understand how diffficult it must be in your enviroment right now.
Is there anything you can do to help your H realize how much of a problem HIS drinking is to your relationship.
You have very many more tools than I do for understanding substance abuse. The first thought that come to my mind is that unless your H can understand that his continued drinking will only end in you leaving he will not stop.
Perhaps a carefully worded note explaining very clearly how you feel and seperating him from his drinking. Although detachment is helps you survive the day it leaves you both struck.
I read earlier that your H is making in the 80's and you are still in finacial trouble! If this is the case something is wrong and poor money decisions are being made.
Sue, although he will not admit it to you your H needs your help and support.
