Sue,

Last post this year to you.. Off to Mexico next week.

Communication can be a very difficult thing at times. I have found that the clearer I can make my self the better. If it means I have to look for feedback from my W then I do. I ask her right away if I think there is any possibility of us not understanding each other. At first it seemed abit tedious but I now find it rountine and has circumvented many misunderstandings.

I was expecting to hear about you reflections on that book . It may help you with some of the answers that you are looking for. It may also be a of value to your H in understanding why he feels the way he does.

Have a great holiday, enjoy.

Chris