Byte, GOOD FOR YOU!!! This really is the season of miracles, isn't it? I was really happy to read how you and your wife are communicating. That's probably 75% of the battle. It must have been really hard to turn down a promotion. A lot of men think that they are the only ones who have a drive to succeed at work, but sometimes I think it's just as hard for women because we have to work harder to prove ourselves in the workplace, especially in male-dominated jobs. So, that is doubly good for you that you were chosen above the job. You must be very happy with that decision. I am so happy for your whole family. Keep working at things. You will make it. God bless you! GG