Am I Creating a SSM Part III

[Burgbud]

If I was your H I would have probably taken your truck out to the desert and blown it up. Im not kidding.

Heather kisses a guy and you're gonna blow up her truck? If she'd have slept with him would you burn down the house?

I think Dr. Harley needs to give me a call, because while I admire his work I can't imagine being raped so pleasantly that I'd choose to be raped again rather than having a second unfaithful spouse. And I'd really, really like to talk to the person who told him their spouse's unfaithfulness was more painful than the sexual abuse of their child. That's unfathomable. Right there's your person who needs to have their truck blown up.


So far all of your boundaries are fake and an attempt to force him into some sort of behavior. How is this working out for you?

So far the five months of no sex without kissing seems to be working marginally better than the previous nineteen months with sex on a regular basis. Why is that a false boundary? Heather has said that having sex without kissing followed by H leaving her in the guest bed to go sleep in the marital bed is emotionally painful to her. So she stopped doing it.


Taking a kiss-probably not. Baby step it. ML, missionary position. kiss his chest, nuzzle his face/ kiss his neck/rub cheeks (not ass cheeks. J/K .) Eskimo kiss (nose rubbing).

This is confusing. If she wanted to have sex why would she need to baby step it? H is perfectly happy to have fun, adventurous sex with Heather. What he won't do is ride in her truck, kiss her, or let her sleep in their bed.