_________________________________________________________ One thing I never fully consciously realized before is that one of H's problems is he doesn't think it's right for Heather to have her mini-A and then end up with a better M. From a certain perspective that's an understandable thought. But the A is over and done, H, when are you going to figure out that a better M is to your own benefit? __________________________________________________________
This is a great point. I wonder what would happen if Heather pointed this out to H. "H, who are you punishing here? Me or you?"
Heather, you may have had the A but that doesn't make you solely responsible for the issues in the relationship. I hope you know that. And just because you had the A doesn't mean you have to stick it out if it doesn't get better.
