Just wanted to say I think the points you are making are fantastic Burgbud. Heather, I think you should say those things directly to him. Males are instictively competitive with other males. If you show him how much he is still giving up to OM, while you have been trying to give it back to him, he may finally take the initiative and take those things back for himself. I can say from a man's perspective, if I were in his shoes, I'd be riding around in your truck all the time as an act of defiance and possessiveness against OM. I'd probably even insist that I drive the vehicle. I know, I can be silly sometimes. Maybe it is wrong-headed to think that way, but that is what I would do.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
