Quote: I want to understand his point of view and I want to help him....but I can't help him and I can't help us if we continue with these kinds of behaviors.
Have you said this to him? Sat down and really talked about his behavor? BTW how long has it been since the A took place? I can also see letting it go at first, but there has to come a time when it stops.
I also understand not wanting to put the kids in the middle of all this. Doesn't he also have a responsibility to think about the kids and what it might do to them if he refused to get in the truck if you showed up in it?
