Havent heard from you in a while and I happened to come across your thread. Sounds like things are definitely looking good for you and the W. I hope I can be sitting where you are at some point. I'm going to revisit some of your old posts to see where the turning point was for you. Any words of wisdom for me? My W hasnt made any indication that she wants to seperate, but I know she's not happy since the feelings havent returned for her. And I know that I'm not happy, but at least we're talking, considerate and trying. I think its time to revisit counseling.