You're right Chrome, I shouldn't say it isn't as deep as H's....it's different than his pain but isn't necessarily less traumatic. Thanks for pointing that out.

I have a question....you know, H doesn't ride in my vehicle. He gets home from San Diego tomorrow and his flight comes in at 6:22pm. I will be at daycare to pick up the kids at 6pm and then will have to go right to the airport. My question is this: I don't want to switch vehicles to pick H up. I usually do this. I don't want to do it anymore. I asked him how he was going to get home tomorrow, if he was going to take a cab since his flight came in at 6:22. He said "Oh, I thought you guys were going to come to the airport and get me after you picked the kids up from school?" I said "I'm going to be in my truck, I'll be happy to pick you up or you can take a cab, just let me know". He said "You can't just go home and switch vehicles?" I said "I'm not going to get the kids out of one vehicle and put them in another..." He said "Switch vehicles before you pick them up." I said "H, I would appreciate it if you didn't ask me to go out of my way for that...I understand you don't want to ride in my vehicle, but please don't ask me to go out of my way." He said "I am not riding in that <fu@king?> truck". I said "I understand and that's your choice. You can take a cab." He said sarcastically, "Yeah, it's my choice!" He said "Whatever, I'll talk to you later." I said "Ok, bye".

What do you guys think? Should I just switch vehicles?


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