Dear Byte, What in the world can you expect, of course you are going to feel as if you are on shaky grounds for a while. You've been through a traumatic experience and it's hard to feel on top of the world and self-assured right now. Whatever you're feeling is completely normal. However, I do have a suggestion. Do the "Act as if" technique. Ask yourself, "If I felt more confident about her love and our future together, how would I be acting, feeling, thinking differently?" After you arrive at your answer...start acting as if. You'll grow into it. I promise. Michele
