Heather,
What if you were to say "Since nephew is spending the night, I figured I'd sleep in our bed." and leave it at that. What's he gonna say?

I know he's been ugly in the past but would he keep that up, you think?

I sometimes think that your H is this big idjit who wants you back in the bed but can't swallow his pride and invite you back.

I would *definitely* be bringing this incident up in MC.

Sorry you had a bad weekend.