Chris,
I am going to get that book today for sure.
there is a bookstore next door to my counselor and I have a session tonight.

Theressa has been sending me information from that book. she just sent me the section on emotional needs.

thanks again for all your suport, advice, male insights, and keeping me looking forward whenever I started to look back too long.

yes I know Ineed to start a new thread because this one is soooo long! one of my new goals is going to be much shorter posts!!! I go back and read over my threads and I feel like saying shut up already to MY posts
anyways I dont know what exactly my new thread will be because I have done a lot of thinking lately and am need for some time to just digest and get my plan together.

Sue