I had to think back to what, Tina's reply, you were referencing, because she and I have become such good friends now, off the board. And, you are right, I did not know her whole story. And, I immediately apologized to her, which she graciously accepted. Your need to criticize what I posted to someone else is interesting. Tina and I handled it between ourselves, and she understood my heart and motivations.
I don't think I have an attitude. What I have is an impatience with people, who constantly claim, that they are looking for solutions, yet do nothing BUT complain. They never seem to actually implement, any course of action. That is not necessarily directed at you. I understand why you come to the board. And, I am glad that it has been such a place of solace for you.
I feel it is inappropriate to try and compare people's degree of tragedy. Pain is pain, and everyone's pain is valid. We all have our challenges, and we all do the best we can, just with varying degrees of grace.
I only posted to you, because you seem so overwhelmed by life's ordinary daily chores, that I pointed out the obvious...less online time. But, you took it as me looking down on you. I was not. It was just a suggestion.
You will obviously get a handle back on things, when you choose to, because the issues are not about housekeeping.
