Yeah, JW. The lying was the hardest part to get over. I still wonder if the lying is still going on. Trust restoration does not come easy. I worry about it a lot. I try to be hopeful, but I still have a lot of trust issues. I hope I can get over them one day, but I've been lied to so many times and for so many years. I think I told you I found out about another affair just prior to the wedding that I didn't know about until the ho decided to tell me last August. That makes 3 altogether. One since the wedding (the ho) and 2 during our engagement.
I have never gotten an apology or a thank you for not giving up on him. It's hard. You are lucky to have gotten an apology. I hear most of them just want to act like it never happened, and want us to get over it. Hmmm. Not sure if that is possible, but I'm still trying to act as if... GG
