Haven't posted in a while - crazy bunch of weeks post Thanksgiving - and a trip to Ireland for work - just got back the other day.
Slowly, my darlin' and one of my many angels - thanks for the holiday wish - most certainly the same back to you. I owe you much.
For the big news I have to report, I need to dig up a quote from a post from another great DB'r - JustMe:
Quote: Let me ask you this....are you comfortable that you will be together a year or two from now? How long before you feel convinced that she loves you? Have sex/make love? I just think there are a lot of hurdles that still need crossed before taking it for granted that your D is busted.
Well, dare I say it became official last night - short convo that WAW and I had last night:
Note she had not yet fully, verbally “recommitted” to the M. She did that last night. She started by saying that she missed me when I was in Ireland. Then she says, “can I tell you something” – so I responded naturally with “what did I mess up now?”. She laughs and says, “I’m in. I’m ready to jump back in fully (to the marriage)”. I said, “don’t worry, I’ll catch you”. "I love you" she says and then, “please don’t hurt me again”. “I’ve got you”, I responded…then off to bed.
The holidays will present a real challenge but I feel more ready than ever - there is a huge wall up between my sister and WAW and I've asked my sis to make the first move. She's considering, but has not committed. I pulled a bit of a Paul and Anne 180 on my sis and told her flat out that this is what she needs to do - or not - her call but make a call so we can just move on.
So that is my Christmas story.
Keep the faith folks, but never stop growing in yourself. Here's to a happy set of holidays and a wish for a very prosperous 2007.
Sven
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.
